If an outsider attacked your lover, would you stop him? Would
you defend yourself and your spouse against an attack?
A cheating lover who breaks a promise to be faithful is literally
attacking your relationship. If you suspect this is happening,
you owe it to your love to defend it. Otherwise you will either
never really be able to trust your mate, or you won't even
realize that you've been a sap until your partner walks out the
door...forever.
If you're worried that your mate is cheating, keep your head
together and start collecting evidence. Whatever you do, don't
let your partner know you suspect until you have some good,
solid facts to back up your suspicions. A cheating lover,
backed into a corner, usually finds an excuse to leave the
relationship precipitously. And a faithful lover does not need
to ever know there was suspicion.
Here are seven proven, tried-and-true ways you can catch a
cheating lover:
1) The single biggest tip-off is in sudden behavior changes
that continue sporadically. A work routine that has changed,
such as staying late at the office or long lunches could be a
tell-tale clue. Call him, just to see if he's there. Even drop in
on him, once you suspect him, at the office, bringing some
cookies or a present for an excuse.
2) Does she pick on you, looking for things to criticize? This
may mean she's building a case to justify leaving the
relationship for good. Does she create a fight then leave the
house in a huff and stay away for hours? Warning!
3) Are there changes in his appearance? Does he take more
interest in it, dressing better and being more careful with
grooming in general? Has his style of dress gone from
conservative to, say, Mobster Mannequin or Lounge Lizard?
Time to open your eyes... and keep them open.
4) Does she seem to suddenly get a lot of cell phone calls
she avoids taking in your presence? It's probably the other
man.
5) Is he suddenly going out with his male friends,
supposedly? Ask him where he's going, and go there to
check. But be surreptitious; stay in the shadows!
6) These days, there are lots of high-tech gadgets and
methods for capturing an adulterer. You can actually track
every keystroke in a computer, for example, every call on a
cell phone... and you can do these things without a trace.
Installing spy-cams is an option, or hiring a private detective.
7) Have you noticed an abrupt and lasting change in your sex
life? Is he holding out on you physically? Do you find his
excuses downright lame? This is red-flag time.
A monogamous relationship is a serious commitment and
accusing a partner of adultery is a serious charge. An open
mind, balance and neutrality are the watchwords.
Now. Memorize this article and fight back for your
relationship... the smart way.
About the Author
By W.Aris
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