25 Dating Strategies and Tactics

To find a long term relationship, you must go after
it. It probably isn't going to fall into your lap.

Here are some tips to improve your success.

1. You have to go after the one you want and then win
them over. Be a friend - show attention, understanding,
acceptance, and appreciation.

2. Satisfy emotional needs- show interest and listen to
them. Spark a romantic emotion. Romance is a combination
of hope with some doubt and it adds up to passion. People
want what they can't have.

3. The third part of love is respect. It is earned through
your actions. You must show an independent and confident
personality. You can live with them or without them. You
are in no hurry and aren't desperate.

4. You really have to date several people at once. It will
make you look like a great catch. When you have multiple
options, anyone who wants to be with you will work much harder.
Instead of you doing the chasing, they will be chasing you.
This takes the pressure off of yourself. You really want to
date a few people anyway before jumping from one long term
relationship to another.

Dating Strategies to keep in mind:

You must be happy with yourself before you will have success.
Be kind to yourself and turn off the negative thoughts. You
can change what you can and forget the rest. Don't worry
about things you can't change. If you can't change them, all
the worry in the world wont do any good.

Set some goals and write them down. You must make a plan with
a clear path you want to follow.

You must set aside a night each week to get out of the house.
Go where others gather. Check the paper for ideas and get out
there. How many people have you met at your house? Force
yourself to go out anyway. It is only one night a week, you
can still sit on the couch the other six nights. You aren't
going to find new people unless you actually go out.

There are single and available people all over the place.
Nearly every place you go, has single people if you LOOK. Start
simple don't go after the hottest person(too much pressure).
Talk to the average person, get a phone number and move on. It
really is a simple two step process. Meet and greet, a short
conversation with eye contact and then say Great meeting you, but
I have got to run; could I get your number? The Key is to RELAX.
The more you do this the easier it gets.

Take the initiative and be the first to show interest in them. It
shows confidence. You are only trying to get that first date.
Don't start fretting about your wedding and future children just
yet. Keep it simple. But you must do it yourself, no one will do
it for you. Don't let an opportunity pass by, get that phone
number and go from there.

Rejection is part of the dating game. Don't take it personal, not
everyone is going to want to date you. They may not be dating
at all right now. You never know unless you ask. Don't be
afraid of looking foolish, we all look foolish all the time. Use
positive reactions in the face of rejection. You aren't worried if
they say no. You asked and that is the most important thing. One
more no means you didn't waste your time and money on someone who
isn't even interested. Plus you are just closer to finding the one
who is interested. It is all practice and will make you a master
at dating that much quicker.

Get out of the house and start looking tonight.

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